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When A Lady Tests A Gentleman
The following is a guidebook and an explanation of a common occurrence in a close, committed, romantic relationship.
When a Lady tests a Gentleman, there is usually an emotional reaction within the Lady.
First of all, we need to distinguish what do I mean by “testing” in this context?
This phenomena usually happens in a close and romantic relationship. And usually something triggers the Lady and she feels some type of emotion she cannot handle on her own.
Next, all of that emotion is put on the Gentleman.
In which way You might ask?
To summarise, everything is the Gentleman’s fault. And when I say everything, I mean everything.
You remember that time You forgot to take out the trash? Me neither, but it will be thrown in Your face.
Remember that time You didn’t pick up bread or something from the store?
Me neither, but this time You will be convinced that You are the worst person in the world and You don’t love her enough!
This is where You will start getting the first clues of what is really going on under all of that emotion.
Very often the Lady feels that she isn’t loved enough by You or something similar. She might have a fear that You…
