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Explaining Naivete and Delusions in Relationships, Through the Lens of Astrology. And What to do About Them.
This piece is directly inspired by my own experiences, growth, my own suffering and then finding answers to that suffering.
We all have an idea about how relationships “should” look, feel and taste like. Sometimes these ideas are hidden in our subconsciousness and we need a wake-up call to see our naïve way of looking at relationships.
Right now, You might be asking, why is this even important?
It is important because deep down, each of us, no matter how repressed the desire, yearn to be in a “healthy” relationship. I’m talking about romantic relationships in this context, just to be clear.
I had an intense relationship some years ago that ended abruptly. At first, this sent me into a deep abyss, not understanding my own worth and value, sadness, etc. You probably know the drill if You have ever loved someone and have them love You back.
Fortunately for me, this darkness motivated to get more powerful within myself emotionally. I started researching and testing my findings out like a crazy person. Which lead me to a new committed, romantic relationship.
This is where the delusion part and astrology come into play.