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Create More Clarity in Life and in Relationship

Ian Altosaar
2 min readMay 6, 2022

Me and my fiancé have a weekly time set aside for ourselves as a couple.

This is the time for us where anything goes.

Sometimes one of us is stuck in some area of our lives.

Often this gets brought to the table as well.

“I don’t know what to do here.”

“I’m unsure about this specific situation. What do I do?”

“Do I do this or that? Or something else entirely?”

This can also translate into the relationship sphere where we have to make decisions as a couple.

“Do we move here? Or there?”

“Do we sell this and buy that instead?”

“What kindergarten will our son go to? And will he learn Estonian, English, or even Spanish? Or even all of them?”

These are very common scenarios that need to get solved and understood deeply.

I have a very simple yet hard question to ask in most of these situations.

“What would You (or sometimes we) do when You could have anything You have ever wanted? When there’s no obstacles, neither physical or mental? What would You do or want then?”

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Ian Altosaar
Ian Altosaar

Written by Ian Altosaar

Writer at www.ianaltosaar.com, astrologer, spiritual therapist , dreamer. author of The Meaning Book. Get it here: https://amazon.com/dp/B081X34YK7

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